Sex vs. Making Love

That reblog kind of gave me the courage to talk about sex.

What first comes to mind is the “V word”…yes I said it.  I’m a virgin. People totally have this misconception about me. They believe I’m a virgin because I don’t want to have sex.

Well they’re partly right. I don’t want to just “have sex”for my first experience. I want to make love. There’s quite a difference. But it’s not that I don’t want to have sex. It’s more I don’t want to share my mind, body, & soul with anybody.

“Your body is your temple” I truly believe in that.

Now just because I believe in that doesn’t mean I look down upon anybody having casual sex. I’m all for sexual liberation, but it’s just not me. Of course I have my needs & I’d like them to be satisfied, but I also want them to be satisfied by someone I love.

Now as for what I imagine…

I’d like some candles, and a romantic night

But things might not be that way. I’m pretty sure it will be awkward. I won’t get to choose how it happens or maybe not even the setting.

But I do get to choose who it’s with, and I want it be with someone that I love.

Someone I want physically, emotionally, spiritually ,and mentally. I want to be in tune with this person.

That’s all I want. That’s all I ask for.

I think it’s pretty clear who I want that with.